Finally Made My Decision!
I’m going through a very exciting period of my life right now. I just made a decision on where I’ll be spending the next four years of my life, which is Salem State University. I can honestly say that the whole college process is fairly hectic and mind boggling, but once it’s over it will all be worth it. Being accepted at Salem State University has been one of my goals, and I’m very happy that I achieved it, because it’s my dream school. Not wanting to waste any time, I immediately took a tour of the campus and I was very pleased with what I saw. I was especially happy with how diverse the University was and how easy it was to commute back and forth from Salem to Boston.
I cannot stress how important it is to VISIT the colleges/universities that you have in mind, because what’s shown on the internet can be so much different than actually having the experience in person. Not only that, it’s very important to bring your parents along to share the experience as well, because even though it’s ultimately your decision, it also helps your parents to feel that the College/University that you plan to attend is both safe and comfortable. It also helps to get all questions answered, to get a feel of the campus, and meet new friends.
Going off to college is more than just leaving high school. It’s a new beginning and a transition into adulthood, because there are more responsibilities to take on. It’s even more important if you decide to live on campus like myself. Living on campus can be a fun experience because it helps you to mature and become responsible, with making your own schedule, doing work study, etc., but most of all it proves to your parents that you are growing up and capable of living on your own. Being that I am the first generation in my family to attend a university makes this experience even more special to me. I’m now an even bigger role model for my younger siblings to show them that when you work hard, success is bound to come your way. Having the responsibility of everyone look up to me to graduate from college and amount to something is my motivation to strive and do my best.
If you happen to be in a similar situation, just remember that when you believe you can achieve anything in life and that going to college is a step that very few people get to take, you’ll be proud of yourself for making it this far!
-Kayla